Well it is Friday. Not a whole lot going on here. Wifey has been away (at home) for almost 2 weeks. This is probably the longest I have ever lived alone. I lived with my folks, sporadically with Army people, in the dorm,with room mates and got hitched to Wifey then lived with her. At various points I have been in an empty house for awhile or whatever but not for this long. away
I don't think I like it much. Of course room mates suck but but I prefer living with people I enjoy being around (Wifey or family). Hopefully the time will never come when I have to live alone for good. With my job Wifey and I might make a strategic decision for me to go to a course alone or otherwise be a geographic bachelor for a for months.
I decided that if I ever have to live alone I am definitely getting a dog. In addition to being bad people cats are not particularly good companions. Cat #1 is pretty ambivalent about me or anybody else. Cat #2 is sort of needy but (interestingly enough like many needy people) is difficult to hang out with because he keeps scratching me with his claws.
In a lot of ways living alone is the ultimate accountability to self. If I do the dishes or not it is nobody's problem. If the trash is empty or overflowing it just bothers me and the cats but nobody cares what they think. Not sure if this is bad or good but it is kind of interesting.
I find that my off work time is busier than it used to be. As of late Wifey was working so we pretty evenly spit the household load. However even though I am alone a lot of the load has stayed the same. Instead of cooking every other night I cook whenever I want food. Obviously clean up is me too.
Also I am a lot more social with other people since she isn't around. Not that I am unfriendly with the folks at work or whatever. I have all the normal everyday conversations but outside of work my primary socialization is generally Wifey. As she is at home I am more inclined to sit around for awhile after work and BS or go do something with the guys. Maybe that isn't a bad thing.
Tomorrow I have either a busy day or a semi busy day depending on my motivational level. All good stuff, it is just a question of how much I want to do.